Pain is temporary but change is forever

NEWS FLASH

Just in-

People are selfish and only care about one person...

Themselves!!

So why should you be  any different?

There is nothing wrong with being selfish when it comes to your mental
and physical health..

If any situation in your life is jeopardizing the above then chop it off like it was infected limb!

Now that's a tough decision to make and that shit would hurt for a while...

But in time it would heal and
you would have gotten used to the idea and make peace with it.

BUT!!! YOU ARE NOW FREE OF THE
SITUATION!!

You can't save the world but you can save yourself...(Generic what?)

Don't worry I'm not going to try and sell you a Bible because it's Sunday

I just mean you can't help anyone until you get your own shit together.

That's if they want help....

They may need it but until they want it, your "help" is falling on deaf ears.

You take a risk of making things worse for them..

they might build a bigger wall to protect themselves and then nobody will ever get in.

My advice?

LEAVE THEM ALONE!!!

People are unable to see past their own reality.

Their own self imposed limiting believes and insecurities are the prison that they have made for themselves.

It's not your fault.....So don't feel bad.

You didn't put them there

THEY DID..

You broke out of Shawshank, maybe they will to.

If they don't they are happy there

They don't want to change

The pain is too much for them to

face up to!

Take charge, say enough is enough!

I am better than this!

I will be better than this!

I know how to be better than this!

Then......DO IT! or don't

NOBODY is going to do it for you..

But help will ALWAYS be there if you

Ask for it.

Long John silver Lawlor